Sunday, 5 July 2015

1 reason to cry but 1000 more to SMILE!

It takes love and affection to make a house, a home. Mom-dad, brother-sister, and husband-wife: all residing with love amongst them make up a home. One can say that they are the actual foundation of home but what if one of the pillars gets demolished? It is quite obvious of one to predict that the home will get collapsed. But what if an extra support is provided!

It feels quite broken when a person loses a loved one and that too a mother and this hard luck struck Jaimin.

Coming from a middle class family, Jaimin lost the blessing of his mother’s love at quite a young age. He then stayed with his father and his step mom. His father and his grandfather were the only people with whom he shared a good bond but his grandfather too was freed from his sins. All his feelings with was his father.

‘Step-Mom’- by hearing the word itself, a bitter truth hits our mind that most of the step-mom-child relations are not amicable.

What made Jaimin grow stronger was his own self. He never let his misery dominate him. He was one of the toppers of his batch. He had good friends, enjoyed hangouts with them, but as soon as he stepped into his house, dark clouds would encircle him. The way in which his step-mom behaved with him was completely inappreciable. Considering one of the inhuman acts of her, she had once told Jaimin to return all the expenses she made after him after he started earning.
No doubt there came a point where he was completely broken down, but he was too strong to give up. Holding up his courage, Jaimin never let grief dominate his soul.

Well, on the contrary to his sad life at his home, he was blessed with an amazing friend circle in his college. He was in a relationship with a girl. She always supported him in his darkest hours and so did his friends. She did all things to make Jaimin happy.

On a day so gloomy, he lost courage and shared his grief with his girlfriend. He shed tears and was emotionally broken down. His girlfriend supported him much but still, he was suppressed by negativity.

He decided to bloom. He thought that he would get attacked by grief along if he kept himself vulnerable to it. He counted his blessings instead of his hardships. He said to himself that he had a caring father, a loving girlfriend and supportive friends. How could he let all this happiness from so many people let go by grief from just one person!

What made him drive from grief to happiness? What attitude he thought of possessing to make himself positive? The answer is his perspective. What many of us do is count on negative moments instead of cherishing the blissful ones.

Many of us are blessed with almost all things- parents, friends, yet we cry over small problems we face in our day-to-day lives. Just imagine what would happen if you faced the problems Jaimin faced.

If Jaimin, in spite of grieves, could make the most of his life, then any normal human is capable of being a unique masterpiece if he is determined. You, reading this are even capable of being a masterpiece. It is not important to consider what you lost, rather focus on what you have and make the most of it!

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