Never Act Blind

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We often lose the ones whom we adore a lot, admire a lot. People with whom we decide to tread on the avenue of life often leave us in between. Egoism, conceit, jealousy, distrust and many more are the roots of the crack in any relation. But who’s the main villain? Misunderstanding.

Misunderstandings have killed, distorted many relations like anything in this world and the worst part lies when people refuse to have ears on any type of clarifications.

Million hearts face this dark feel and so did the heart of Aadarsh. A person is not known by the skin he wears but more by the heart he embodies.

Aadarsh had a group of amigos in the prime of his life. They all were the seeds of the same field; fun-loving, notorious but all good at heart. One cannot find any face low with sorrow when they met and the dimples never used to fade off. The brotherhood was ever-lasting! We always wish to have such kind of group of friends, don’t we?

Nothing is permanent, not even joy, not even pain. This quote suited perfectly on the enjoyment of Aadarsh. Seems confusing, isn’t it? How a person who handles himself so well can can face the full stop of his enjoyment with his friends! But the entry of a villain in any story brings the dark phase.

Study load on the young shoulders refrained him from sparing time for joy and he got all his eyes and mind on his work all day. One must sacrifice something in order to gain something! He sacrificed his fun. He had temporarily cut the interosculation with his gang to travel in the vehicle of his career. He was going good. Hard work and sacrifices yield good, you know!

Seasons arrived and departed and his group made nil contact with each other due to their weary days. Once, a friend of him, Mohit called him but to his misfortune, Aadarsh was busy in some work. He apologized for that and told him that he would call later. Mohit was the ‘joker’ guy of his group but as seasons change, so did he. His behaviour was changed; he always assumed that people made excuses to ignore him and thus, he had stepped in the incunabula of misunderstandings.

Mohit, much enraged called Aadarsh, one evening and without hearing anything and letting any clarifications enter his ears, he took a vigorous step of taunting Aadarsh and attacked him with weapons of words. Aadarsh tried to explain him but an angry mind often becomes blind! Mohit went on speaking and blasted all his anger out which indeed was an immoral act by him. Finally he came to an end and before Aadarsh could speak anything, he hanged up.

He always used to go after Mohit whenever they had disputes and misunderstanding was the common root of all the disputes. It went high this time and Aadarsh now respected himself enough to let go of something that didn’t treat him right. He had tried to explain it to Mohit but he was not given any attention. The thunder of misunderstanding had created a deep crevice in the ship of their friendship which sank gradually.

We face problems a lot with our near and dear ones because we think less and act more. Half knowledge is always too dangerous. We adore our near ones, why shall we ignore them just because of some minor fault? No matter how silly any act maybe, there can be a reason behind which they were forced to do so. Don’t let doubts blindfold you. Don’t lose any person just because of fake facts that you assume. Not everything that glitters is gold. Not everything that seems simple, is simple. Act after thinking and think after knowing the complete reason. Because when doubts and misunderstanding arise, the deepest of relations tend to fade away and hearts are fragmented into pieces, too silently for anyone to hear!