It is completely inevitable
that every one of us have experienced such a situation where we wish we’d be
lucky than the other person.
Every situation becomes so
easy to understand when we relate it with a real incident of our lives.
Let me consider an analogy
between the described situation and an incident of my life.
Everyone is running like a
horse after success. While on a mediocre day when I and my friend were having a
cup of coffee, he arose a captivating question against me, “Is a person who
achieves success has more knowledge or a person who is facing nothing but
failure?”
Seeming quite an obvious
question, I spent half a minute after which I answered spontaneously favouring
the successful person. He grinned and just nodded his head in denial. And I was
like, ‘WHAT!’
His expression quite calm and
relaxed and on the contradictory, I was here drowned in confusion and
completely bewildered. He answered to my confusion, “When a person becomes
successful, there are 90% chances that he will get satisfied with what he has
achieved and refuses to proceed further. Even if he does, he would follow the
same path.
Consider a failure in place
of him who works too hard but success is not even in his sight of vision. If he
is passionate about his goal, he will leave no stone unturned to achieve what
he deserves and what he wills to. He will find more ways and dig out more
tunnels for his way to success which the other person couldn’t. Hence, the
failure will get more experience than the successful person. The failure
actually wins here.”
I frowned, but completely
agreed with what he said. No longer did thoughts start to flood my mind then he
added, “We are, to a good extent habitual to criticize our lives. When a person
is facing a problem, his basic instinct will surely point out a negative point
no matter how good the incident might be. We all have the habit of focusing on
the impurity when we are holding a block of gold.
Are we trapped in a situation
where we are suffering a lot? Take the best advantage of it. We mull over it,
and cry that we are unlucky and etc etc… Instead, why not give a thought that
it will give us an experience of a lifetime. It will give us a memory others
won’t have. It can help to develop our personality to a great extent.
Failed in an exam? You have
an opportunity to study again and achieve virtuosity over it. Darn! You can
become one hell of an expert!
Had just faced a break-up? Be
placid, cling to self-respect and be euphoric. It is really a dark shade but the
upcoming rays are worth the wait.
Got kicked out of a job?
Good, in fact, great. The company just lost a chance to work with you while you
have so many companies as an option.
All these things, all these
perceptions help one to be
unique, to stand apart from
the crowd, to get distinguished from the common colours, to build a person into
a masterpiece. A masterpiece is not
born, he is transformed into one. Just your way to see the world matters, just
the way to see your world!”
I was completely spellbound
by the charm in his words and the spark in his eyes to achieve something
substantial in his life. We wished each other good luck and parted. Just a few
moments after we parted our ways, a car passed by me whose one wheel fell in a
puddle of mud water and, SPLASH! It took less than a second to turn me into a
‘chocolate’! I had already murdered him a 1000 times in my mind and was just going
to open my mouth to shower him with words of insult but my inner subconscious
pulled me on a safe side. All my anger flushed down and I smiled at myself. Why
should I not smile, I got a class of my anger management all for free! Great,
isn’t it? And it was all after which I took a vision towards my life, not just
a look!
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